Hello. This has been my concern for a long time.
Isa akong babae, nung bata ako like, 7-8 years old ay lagi akong iniiwanan mag-isa sa bahay ng mga parents ko kahit saan sila magpunta.
Pero yung kapatid kong lalaki na iisang taon lang yung agwat naming dalawa, laging kasama kahit saan magpunta.
Yung buhay ko nung bata ako ay hindi ko na-enjoy. Typical na lagi ako yung iniiwan para magbantay ng tindahan, gumawa ng gawaing bahay, walang kalayaan maglaro like a normal child.
Going back to the “laging iniiwanan sa bahay mag-isa”, paulit ulit akong nirê-r*pê ng mismong pinsan ko, and mas malala don, pati yung isang barkada niya.
Bakit di ako nâgsumb0ng sa parents ko? Well, tinât4k0t ako and wala pa sa utâk ko ang mga ganong pangyayari o kung ano ba yun, that’s why I kept quiet.
As I get older, dun ko lang na-realize kung anong pâmbâb4b0y yung ginâwâ sa kin.
But now that I’m 24 (professional), hindi ko alam if normal pa ba to…
Kapag nakikipag-s*x ako, walang feelings. Lagi akong nakatulala and I’m f4k!ng m0âns. Never s@tisfiêd in b3d.
I met this guy sa Omegle, we f*ck*d. Not gonna lie, he’s g00d in it (dâks) pero ako? Wala pa rin. Nakatulala lang na parang walang nangyayari.
He l@sted 30 minutes, ako naman hindi pa rin s@tisfiêd, and I don’t know why. Ganun din yung ganap sa mga exes ko lagi.
But when I watch p*rn, m@stûrb@tê, and imagining things, dun lang ako nasa-s@tîsfy.
Is that normal? Walang ma-fêêl while doing it with m3n but s@tisfiêd with with mys3lf? Or is it my tr4uma?
What should I do? Go on a therapist? I’m lost.
CRAP, 2018, CIT
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what if try mo sa babae, sender? HAHAHHAHA
Hahahaha pwede nga sender give it a try
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same tayo ng experience sender. the only diff is that i never told the elders kasi nasarapan ako sa pambababoy nung mga pinsan ko sakin. affected yung sex life ko bcos of this. i never experience yung full blown na lib*g sa mga nakaka-s-x ko. hell di ko nga naranasang l×b×san.
hugs satin sender.
Same experience. Magkapatid na pinsan ko gumawa nun sa akin sa mismong pamamahay namin. Never ko sinabi sa family ko. Hindi ko alam kung hanggang ngayon wala pa rin silang alam. Kasi normal lang na napapag usapan yong mga pinsan kong gumawa sa akin nun.
as a psychology student first factor nung lack of satisfactory abt your unhealed childhood trauma second naman is baka doon sa guys yung problem like foreplay and stuff it’s a factor too
pero as you said na may ganung experience ka na ganun in past and you think it still does affects your present try to seek for professionals like counseling or psychiatrist ayun lang pi
tama po
Im about to say this.
Go seek for professional help.
Mics
Same sender same din nang nanyari sa akin pero tito ko naman kapatid ng papa ko, never ako na satisfied sa sex
Same 🥺😢 kapatid din ng tatay ko.
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hi ganyan din ako nung bata ako pero tito at pinsan ko naman, hindi ko talaga alam nangyayari nung bata ako malaki na ako nung narealize ko na mali pala ‘yun at never ko pa sinasabi. I am 21 y.o na din at may first time boyfriend ako kaso LDR at isang beses pa lang kami nagkikita at sinabi nya sa akin p*rn addict daw sya HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA pero wala akong nafefeel nung sinabi nya ‘yun kasi nanood din ako ng p*rn vids dati pero ngayon hindi na.
Same sender. I thought, ako lang din yung nakakaexperience ng ganito. Yung biglang nagdedecline yung lib*g while doing it.
Anw, try mo po magpacounseling or maybe try using s*x toys habang nagseseggs kayo nung partner mo.
simple lang sagot jan , lahat ng gantong babaeng nararamdaman ay yung ka sex nilang lalaki ay walang pake sa kanila kung kaya’t wala silang nararamdaman
No childhood trauma here pero never din ako nasatisfy sa s*x. I am also wondering why.
kilala kita
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Truee. Ako din wala naman childhood trauma, nasasarapan naman sa s*x pero never nilabasan. Mas nasasatisfy ako pag manonood ng p*rn while imagining. Ewan ko ba bat ganon.
Avoid watching porn po. Watching porn will make your sexlife dull. Kasi parang yung utak mo nakaset na sa ganong scenario, wild and rough segs, so syempre pag ginawa nyu e hindi naman ata galawang pornstar partner mo hindi nya nameet expectation ni brain sa segs kaya you will never be satisfied kasi iniexpect ni brain yung kasing wawild ng porn.
Koreeek!
Psych student here. There are different factors to be considered. It’s either the problem is within you or with those men you had sex with. First, nandito kasi yung factor ng childhood trauma. Perhaps, yung problem mo today is a trauma response from your childhood experience. Second, have you take several medications? May factor din yon. Maybe, you developed a sexual disorder. But I’m not saying na meron ka. I’m just saying na may possibility. Third, as per several prior research, hindi talaga nago-orgasm madalas ang mga babae. Karamihan talaga is hindi nas-satisfy. Dito papasok yung performance ng mga lalaki. Ang mas-suggest ko lang sender, is to consult with a professional. So you can have the answers for your concern. Big hugs!
try mo mag sarili sender, nuod ka vids paano ginagawa, not just doing f*ng3r!n6 yourself. or di kaya ikaw ang umibabaw. mas okay yung ganon, dama mo yung hagod dahil kontrol mo ang galaw. before ganyan din ako pero nung ako na umibabaw, dun mas umokay, dalawa pa kami satisfy. yun lang.
As a Psych student, maraming possible factors for your lack of sexual arousal/interest. It could be a trauma response because of what happened to you. Possible rin na your were not stimulated enough to get aroused (lack of foreplay or kung meron man hindi sapat). Maybe it has something to do with the performance of the guy you’re having sex with or it could be that you’re developing a sexual disorder.
I’m not saying it’s female sexual arousal/interest disorder, pero may possibility eh. But just to be sure, seek professional help. Mas alam nila kung anong gagawin sa mga ganitong cases. God bless, Sender!
rub yours while having sex 🥴 para ma satisfy ka aw 🙈🙈
Baka kulang sa foreplay.
Same sakin, never talaga ako nasatisfy sa kama. Kahit sa lahat ng ex ko, sa last ex ko 5yrs yon fake moans lang kunwari nilabasan hahahahaha! Hirap beh, sa prnhb lang deretso palagi after mag keme HAHAHAHA But now ginagawa ko pag nagkekeme kami ng current partner ko sinasabayan ko ng pag giguitar then imagine imagine habang nagpapabbreastfeed sa kanya HAHAHAHAHAHA! AYON SA WAKAS, NAKAMIT ANG TRULALEY HAHAHAHHAHA!
Makakamit mo din ang iyong trulaley sender, tiyaga lang HAHAHAHAHAHA
Therapist is the best option, so they can figure out if it’s hormonal or psychological issue due to trauma.
I think you just needed to heal your child trauma na nag cacause non why you didn’t enjoy your sex life sender baka nasanay ka na wala lang yun sayo like a normal thing na lang dahil sa panghahalay sayo noon,better seek help to a psychiatrist
I think it’s trauma.. Bt gnon? Pncn q sa comment andaming na abuso ng mga pnsan noon.. Kc aq rin, pro wlng insertion ng private part nya.. Na njoy q rin, dhil nga dun hnanap hnap q ung gnawa nya nung bata aq.. And ang result, kung cno2 rin ung guy na nka do q.. At mssv q na mhrap dn aq I satisfy sa bed.. Mas nai njoy q rin pg aq lng gumagwa sa srili q.. Hugs sau sender ❤️
sanaol may partner,reverse naman sa akin 4 years na akong single mom.ayoko pa mag bf ulit.so tamang kfc lang .pero di na ako nasasatisfy yung sarili ko .meaning yung totoong pototoy na talaga hanap ng pussy ko😆
Katulad mo I also had a traumatic experience as a child. Ung ex ko din 3 years kami pero never ako nag orgasm during sex with him. And it looked like he never cared kc akala ko dati hindi nila alam when we fake it but they do. After him, I met this guy online. After a year of LDR, we met in person. The first time we had sex, he was taking forever then he finally asked me what can he do to make me feel good? I cried and told him I don’t know either. Then he made love with me. That was the very first time that I orgasmed with a man. We’re are now approaching our 16th year wedding anniversary. I also found the courage to tell him what happened and it really helped my mental health. So I advise to seek professional help/counselling.
What I’m trying to say is maybe you need to have someone who will make love with you and not just sex.
About masturbating, its normal na ma satisfied ka kc you are freely exploring your own desire on your own pace. In fact I still masturbate now that I am married. I still like to have this me time. And also during sex maybe you need clitoral stimulation so explore about touching yourself during intercourse. Good luck
Trauma response ata yan
Hays nkakalungkot na marami tayong mga ganitong babae, napagsamanthalahan nung mga bata pa tayo. ngaun pagtanda, tinatanong ang mga sarili kung bakit hindi nasasatisfied sa s*x. I feel you sender. I was 6 or 7 when my uncle molested me repeatedly. At 17 maaga din ako nagkaexperience sa s*x, although I dont just randomly have s*x with a stranger. Mga naging bf ko naman sila and my first was a long term relationship. Now I’m 34, professional, happily married. Ganito ata tlga pag na-abused ka. Nandun ung hinahanap hanap mo, pero pag naman may kapartner ka doing the deed parang di ka nasasatisfy. Pero pag ikaw mag isa ang gumagawa, dun ka mas nasasatisfy. Akala ko, ako lang ung ganito. Minsan kasi I question myself na kung normal nga ba. Pero sa lahat ng confessions na nabasa ko, karamihan ganito katulad satin. Its not normal, pero it is common among us na na-abuso nung kabataan. I believe, malalagpasan mo din yan sender, katulad ko.
Ang maia-advice ko nlng sayo sender, wait for someone na tatanggapin ka ng buo sa kabila ng past mo. Yung taong un ang makakapagpasatisfy sayo kasi alam mo sa loob mo na tanggap ka nya at mahal ka nya kahit ano at sino ka pa. I’m telling you this based on my experience. Goodluck sender, you’re still young, enjoy your life and do not dwell in the past. Pray for someone na inilaan sayo ni God. Makikilala mo sya and waiting for him will be worth it. ☺️
I think it is an unconscious reaction to the trauma that you’ve experienced before. Doing it being satisfied with yourself is I think a way of compensation from before when it was done to you non-consensual and forced. It is valid. Your past experiences is indeed a contributing factor to what’s happening to you in the present. If it really affects your way of life or if it is something you want to resolve then go seek for a professional help. Moreover, I hope that you heal from your traumas, it was hard, and I am sorry you have to experience that for a very young age. I hope this world would be kinder.