“My close friend askS me to hangout with him, ‘di rin kasi sila ok ng wife niya, but going out with him that night was a mistake…”

Hello po. I just wanna share my dilemma sa buhay. I’ve been close friends with this guy, he’s married. I’m also close friends with his wife.

Ever since high school kami, lagi na siyang nagpaparamdam sa akin, and being a naive teenager, I thought na pinagti-trip-an niya lang ako.

Nagka-jowa ako and nagka-jowa na rin siya, but we still remained close. As in yung close na halos araw-araw magka-text, minsan magkatawagan pa.


Yung mga jowa namin nun, didn’t really mind since we said na we’re just close because we just like the same things. No strings attached kumbaga. Di din naman sila bothered.

Few years later, me and my boyfriend broke up while he and his then girlfriend got married. Still, di pa rin nawala yung closeness namin.

Recently, I learned na his marriage is on the rocks. He decided to ask me to hangout with him. I obliged knowing na it will be just our usual talks. But going out with him that night was a mistake.


May n*ngy*rî sa aming dalawa. Yes, I gave in because all this time, I secretly wanted him. It happened 4 times already. No one knew about that. As in no one but us.

I wanted him but not this way. I feel so bad, I wanted to cut him off but I just can’t. I can’t let go of the guy who has always been there for me. But I also don’t want to ruin his family (I guess I’m already doing it) lalo na’t buntis na ang asawa niya. We never talked about our status but he always says that he loves me.

I never knew that love could be this cruel. I will be cutting him off na. I don’t want to hurt his family anymore. I am not this type of girl. At least, that’s what I have hoped for. Sorry.


TinYTina, 2023, PUP

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Chi
Chi
4 months ago

Buntis pa man din ako.. Nakakakaba naman tong confession, yung partner ko mag 1 week na walang nangyayari samin dahil “pagod”, wala rin ako access sa phone/social media accounts niya… Sana hindi naman… Hindi ko kakayanin to.. Jusme sender hahahahaha napaiyak mo ko sa confession mo hahahahahaha

Rose Ann Macarayan
Rose Ann Macarayan
Reply to  Chi
4 months ago

why po may close po ba na girl yung husband nyo? gaya kay sender? well kong wala po wag kayo kabahan baka stress kayo bawala yan sa baby

MeLang
MeLang
Reply to  Chi
4 months ago

Maybe, iwas ka din muna sa mga ganitong issue kasi mas lalo nakakatrigger sayo yan. At buntis ka pa. Iwas muna sa pwedeng stress. Need mo magbasa ng positivity muna, relaxing or what. Maglibang ka din muna.

Mnemosyne
Mnemosyne
Reply to  Chi
4 months ago

Sis wag ka masyado mag-isip.
MAHIRAP ma stress kapag buntis.

Error
Error
4 months ago

Sakit naman po neto. Since aware ka naman na may fam na yung friend mo, sana nag adjust ka na lang. Despite your closeness, “girls code” ba. Pero ayon nangyare na, itigil niyo na please. If ako yung nasa situation ng asawa nung guy, feel sorry na agad sa anak namin dahil hindi ko na magagawang bigyan siya ng buong pamilya. Hiwalay na agad, no second chance at all. Hinding hindi ko to matatanggap.

Alei
Alei
Reply to  Error
4 months ago

Duda ako sa malabong itigil na nila, kasi naka apat na, kasuhan na sana yan ng totoong misis, walang respeto sa taong may pamilya, wala ring respeto sa sarili. Pano na yan?

Vee
Vee
4 months ago

No question asked, you’re a H.O.M.E.W.R.E.C.K.E.R
SLUT, WHORE, HOE, BITCHH!!. Hindi porket iiwan mo na sya e majujustify na nun kakatihan mo. Good luck sayo sender. Ayuko mang bash online but sana mabasa mo to at magising ka sa MALAKING PAGKAKAMALI NA NAGAWA MO, TOO LATE FOR REGRETS. YOU INTENTIONALLY WRECK SOMEONE’S SUPPOSED TO BE FAMILY.

MeLang
MeLang
4 months ago

Siguro, it’s also a realization for you na hindi sa lahat ng oras ay dapat close kayo. Ang downside is, narealize mo nung after may mangyari sainyo. Dun na kasi pumasok sa isip mo lahat na, hindi lang yung closeness pala? With feelings na pala. Na yung closeness nyo kahit may asawa na, inignore mo kasi nga “close” mo din yung wife. Na kesyo, “alam naman ng wife” na ganun kayo kaclose. Di ko magets yung perspective ng ganito, kasi nung sa bff ko naman, once na nagkaroon sya ng jowa, less usap as in, ni mag like/react ng posts wala, kasi alam ko mararamdaman ni girl. Sana nagets mo yung point ko sender. I hope, talagang pinutol mo na kung anong “closeness” meron sainyo. And that’s the effect of it. Naging homewrecker ka na, sorry to say. Di pa naman huli lahat, sender. Pwede ka pa magbago. Magfocus sa self mo at sa mga naging desisyon mo sa life.

genggeng
genggeng
4 months ago

isa na naman pong kalandian ang hindi mapigilan, walang gamot sa ganyan mga ate kong likas na haliparot. Kahit sabihin mong puputulin mo na ugnayan nyo hinihiling ko pa rin na gawin din sayo yan ng magiging partner mo para maranasan nyo namang masaktan sa paraang ginagawa nyo, hindi yung puro kayo yung nananakit. Pwe!

Last edited 4 months ago by genggeng
hindimakatigayamo
hindimakatigayamo
Reply to  genggeng
4 months ago

haliparot ka! Makati. dapat sa makati masunog sa impyerno. pag nalaman yan ng asawa trauma talaga. Sabihin mo na sa asawa before it’s too late. baka pag sya pa makaalam mismo makasuhan kang haliparot ka

Last edited 4 months ago by hindimakatigayamo
hindimakatigayamo
hindimakatigayamo
4 months ago

haliparot ka! Makati. dapat sa makati masunog sa impyerno. pag nalaman yan ng asawa trauma talaga. Sabihin mo na sa asawa before it’s too late. baka pag sya pa makaalam mismo makasuhan kang haliparot ka

Pikachu
Pikachu
4 months ago

Sarap mo ate ilampaso. Di mo alam kung gaano yan kasakit sa wife. My husband also cheated on me while I was pregnant with our 3rd child. Kahit anong hingi ng sorry at bawi nya, I can never treat him like before. Ang mga babaeng katulad mo ay isang masahol na hayop. 🤮🤮🤮🤮

Mnemosyne
Mnemosyne
Reply to  Pikachu
4 months ago

True, Lalo na at may nangyari na.

Mnemosyne
Mnemosyne
4 months ago

That ” I don’t want to hurt his family” oh come on ginusto mo yan from the first place.

Did u know may karma yan? Wait ka nalang, Lalo na buntis pa Yong wife ng friend mo.

Kapag friend, friend lang di Yong makikipag thing ka pa, kahit alam mo ng kasali at may pamilya na Yong kaibigan mo.

Parang di ka base ah?
Di mo alam girl code?
Aga aga oh, kuha mo inis ko.

Jean
Jean
4 months ago

Girl, ang bad mo. Makarma ka sana. Alam mo nang may asawa na, friend mo pa ung wife nya pero gumora ka parin magpatira. Wala kang respeto sa sarili mo girl, ang lala mo. At lalong wala ka respeto sa kaibigan mo na wife nya. Hindi ka na nahiya. Dapat alam mo limitation mo, umapat ka pa tlga. Tsk. Dapat pinaglabanan mo ung temptation and stand your ground na hindi ka papatol sknya dahil mali. Maling mali. Sana nga magawa mong lumayo na sknila. Pero asahan mo magtataka ung wife nya kung bkit ka lumayo sknila. Ihanda mo nlng din sarili mo girl dahil walang lihim na hindi nabubunyag.

Alei
Alei
4 months ago

You are not “this type of girl” yet you are the girl you are afraid to become. You wanted to cut him off but you do not want, means you do still want to ruin his family and you do not want to lose the connection kasi nga close kayo, and you do not care for yourself kasi nga “in love” ka, you wanted him? Then better to tell it to the wife instead, maawa ka sa baby na darating, 4 times is enough, sana nga natauhan ka na, di p*p* lan yung pinapairal mo. Maawa sana ako e kasi akala ko isang beses lan, pero di pala naka apat na kayo, worst than that? Alam mo naman na pamilyadong tao, my piece of advice, sa mga di pa kasal diyan na may gusto pa rin ng ibang babae/lalake, better to tell your partner na they are not the one, so that in the end, di sila mag ssuffer sa katarantaduhan niyo.

Meow
Meow
3 months ago

Iw, no.

idnjajdhaidjjsnxnnsnxnbs
idnjajdhaidjjsnxnnsnxnbs
3 months ago

Lmao. Ang funny sa ayaw makasira ng pamilya pero naka apat na beses na may nangyari.

CHEEMS
CHEEMS
Reply to  idnjajdhaidjjsnxnnsnxnbs
3 months ago

diba? ka toxic e, haha wala na siyang brain, tite brain meron siya

Umay sayo
Umay sayo
3 months ago

I don’t know pero naaawa ako sa mga babaeng ganito like girl bobo ka ba? Ng aral ka tapos magiging tangà kalang dhil s kalandian mo .

Kat
Kat
3 months ago

i feel so bad dw pero 4x may nangyari?hahahah

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